Reviews and Price Comparisons of Online Dating Sites

BDSM.com

(see a list of higher ranked sites)

Preview by Thumbshots.com
Editorial rating User rating

On this page you'll find BDSM.com reviews, their contact details (usually including phone numbers and other customer support options), as well as information about costs and subscriptions for a BDSM.com membership. In case the site is running any promotions at this time, you can look up BDSM.com promo codes and coupons here as well.

by

I have recently come across this site and have been overjoyed with all it has to offer me. I have been looking for a site to share stories and ask some questions, and have found that BDSM.com is perfect for what I was looking for. I am leery of signing up for certain sites because of different issues but after looking around the site, I realized very quickly I wanted to be part of what was happening there. It was very easy to create an account and the upgraded version of  the free membership plan provided benefits and features that are definitely a notch above the basic account. I took advantage of the offer for the upgrade so I could have all the features and interact with everyone on the site.

BDSM.com is by no means my first experience in online dating. After some time, things can get a bit boring on normal dating sites, so explored other options. Needless to say, BDSM.com offered not just buttons for 'flirts' or 'winks'.

I have to admit, it hasn't been easy connecting with someone who would easily get into the sort of things I was into especially where physical intimacy was concerned. Let's just say, I have certain kinks. While I have the means to satiate these 'cravings', an environment where they can be safely played out is scarce. This site is one of those safe places.


BDSM.com community

BDSM Community

BDSM.com has a community for fetishists looking for specific kinds of kinks and fetishes: bondage, sadism/masochism, handcuffs, humiliation, and anal, among others. You name it, they probably have it. As there are plenty to explore, one is bound to be slightly overwhelmed by the choices.

I chose this site because it was very easy to navigate and it offered just what I was looking for. I was only looking for companionship and dating in the context of BDSM, but I was pleased to find out that it also offered a great outlet for me to be able to read thousands of articles from its members that will enable me to share my stories as well. I could not ask for more out of a site.

Not a lot of people know I am into BDSM mainly because no one who's into it openly discuses it with just about anyone, and being a part of this site has helped relieve some of my anxieties. Maybe there will come a time when I will be able to make it part of my everyday life, without feeling guilt or shame, but for now, I'm quite satisfied with the BDSM community.

BDSM.com shopping
Sex Toys R Us

I was pleasantly surprised to see the shopping portal available for some things that I have been unable to find elsewhere. The toy store also has a wealth of bondage gears, rings (you know the kind), 'insertables', strap ons, fetish clothing, lubes and creams, chastity devices, and gags. I had to look at each category so I could make sure I was not missing anything. I was pleased, so to speak, with the wide selection that is offered and I think I may have found a really safe, secure store to check out whenever I feel like browsing. Aside from providing an environment where fetishists such as myself can thrive, BDSM.com also doubles as an online sex toy store which, I have to say, is a sensible match and a great convenience.

Social Functions

After thoroughly plumbing the depths of this site, I went to the search page and tried to settle in. It is important to know exactly what type of community you wish to be part in and to get ready for expressions of interest from members of that community. One thing I noticed is that it doesn't take too long upon entering a group for someone to hit flirt on your profile or message you, mostly for activity invitations. I appreciate this but at the same time, I find that the some of the members' 'offers' might come off a bit forward for others. But I suppose that is to be expected here.

There is also a feature that allows Paid Membership users to view videos – the kind you don't easily see in YouTube.

Recommendation

I am slowly working up the nerve to interact with more members and I am sure it is going to take time. I've met several activity partners and although some of these conversations (which you have to be on a Silver or Gold membership to do) I have seen many people within my area and am excited about meeting some of them. I have been in several email relationships but I am looking for so much more and I am so excited that I have found a site that I can trust and offers so much.

choose
YOUR
PLAN
Free
Silver
Gold
Standard
Upload Photos
View Profiles
Favorites lists
 
Search
Save Searches
General search
Advanced search
Appear first in searches
 
Communication
Access to chat rooms
Send emails
Read emails
Use IM
 
Personal Profile
Upload video greetings
View photos
Upload voice greetings
Feature profile
 
Matchmaking
Take personality test
 
Extra Services
Telephone technical support
View video profiles
 
Subscriptions
1 Month Plan n/a $19.93/month
Total $19.93
$29.74/month
Total $29.74
3 Months Plan n/a $12.07/month
Total $36.22
n/a
4 Months Plan n/a n/a $15.02/month
Total $60.07
1 Unlimited Plan Free n/a n/a

Cupid's Library monitors BDSM.com for any new discounts, coupons and limited-time offers on a daily basis. At the moment there are no special offers available. However, please feel free to sign up for our newsletter to get notified the moment a BDSM.com coupon becomes available.

Receive Free Promotion and Discount Alerts

BDSM.com has more male than female visitors. Members featured on the site have mostly attended College. The median income of the sites users is in the range of $50,000 - $100,000. The dating site's most active age bracket is 35 - 44 years. The most well-represented ethnicity in their user base is Caucasian.

Gender Ethnicity Income
56%
44%
Caucasian 78%
African American 8%
The median income is in the range $50,000 - $100,000.
Most Active Age Group
Education
 
42%
No College
 
43%
College
 
15%
Grad School

Company Information

Name: Various, Inc.
Address: 6800 Broken Sound Parkway, Suite 200, Boca Raton, FL 33487
  • Average User Rating
  • I came acros bdsm.com one day and instantly became hooked. I spent the entire night watching exciting videos and talking to the most daring people I ever met. Only a few minutes after registering, I was already able to view my favorites – bondage, chains and whips, and a whole lot more. You name it, bdsm.com has it!

    It's quite uncomfortable for me, a middle aged businesswoman, to discuss this passion of mine. I have always liked submission, it gives me pleasure that I never get to experience with normal lovemaking. I always get embarassed when talkin about it with friends. With bdsm.com, I can let go of all of my inhibitions and run wild! I even met someone who is a perfect match for my little kink!

    I never had any bad experiences with bdsm.com ever since I registered as a member almost two years ago. Until now, I see new things and talk to new people with the same erotic fantasies. Definitely one of the best websites I have ever joined!

    LaVey - Jun 21, 2013 at 1:11 a.m.
  • Love the site. Signed up after going frustrated trying to find someone interesting on countless other, more generic sites. Was a bit worried at first, but turns out the site does seem to attract people with the right mindset.

    Kathleen - Sep 04, 2013 at 2:19 a.m.
  • Login here or Sign Up to comment
Tweet